Don’t delude yourself, don’t let this
above statement deceive you, or rather don’t get the above statement wrong, you see love finally accepts you the way you are only because;
1) the way you are was not just good enough to just attract love, but also great enough to sustain it into long term business matters.
2) the way you are is more good than it is bad, so love can “accept” abi “manage” so to say.
May I add that, love can accept you, but the person can still reject you, It’s basic
Love isn’t everything.
Love is unconditional but Trust isn’t, Respect isn’t. How I feel is one thing, what I decide is another.
On my phone I have different browsers, Opera mini, Phoenix browser, Chrome browser and one like that I have never used before. I observed that each time I browsed with any particular one, the app would request that I made it my default browser, each one of them wanted to be my default browser. I asked myself why this was, and the answer of course was, they have something to gain if I did that, and of course I also would choose a particular one as my default browser based on the value it offered me that the others didn’t.
LOVE is not SELFISH, yes, but LOVE is not STUPID.
Don’t use “love me as I am” as an excuse to become complacent, to stop working on yourself and leave yourself like an abandoned project and think somebody will still love you laid at and agree to go into a relationship with you, well somebody will, but it may not be the kind of person you hope would,
The quality of your life determines the quality of the people that will agree to date you, and the quality of people you yourself will agree to date finally.
NOTE: We attract our kind.
You, the person you look forward to marrying, are they not like you in more ways than one? Or even better self? Answer.
Kid yourself not,
You will attract what and who you are. look at yourself, the quality and capacity you have instilled in your life will determine the quality of people that wants you.
Work on yourself;
✔️EMOTIONALLY.
Your emotional maturity determines a lot about who finds you interesting, and if you can maintain/sustain a healthy relationship.
✔️FINANCIALLY.
Be you male or female, work hard, have a dream, pursue it,
SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE are ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE, be honest, nobody loves a failure.
✔️SPIRITUALLY.
you want a God fearing wife or husband, you yourself, how far?
How God-fearing are you?
✔️WORK ON YOUR MENTAL CAPACITY.
The way some people think and talk, you feel like you should cry on their behalf, you don’t know, you do not know that you do not know,
you lack the capacity to know, you don’t even want to know, this your own, apostle must not hear it oh.
Pursue KNOWLEDGE at all cost and with passion.
Have a VISION for your life, have direction,
When tramadol, small girls in your area and low waist is what is your priority at 27, it’s clear your destiny has fell inside a dirty water.
✔️CHARACTER WISE.
Nothing is as Vain and painful as looks without Character.
Beauty and Money may attract them but you need character to keep them.
LOVE ACCEPTS YOU THE WAY YOU ARE, EHN YES, BUT
IS IT BAD IF YOU IMPROVE THE WAY YOU ARE? IF YOU DO WHAT WILL HAPPEN?
Richards Johnson is the convener of Relationship Without Tears Network. An educator, relationship coach, author and speaker. He inspires and informs young people, helping them to adopt a kingdom oriented approach to relationship/marriage as well as meaningful relationships. He has taken his dynamic messages and teachings from online summits to some regions of West Africa particularly in Nigeria. He resides in Abia State currently.
